How to Have a Successful First Date

First dates do not have to be nerve-racking. A lot of first dates come down to planning carefully ahead of time and tailoring the initial date experience to each one’s personality. Sometimes you just have to let the situation flow. The most important thing to do is just to pick the right environment that allows the both of you to bond as well as kick start your chemistry.

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So now that you already have the number of the girl and you are ready to set up your first date, where is the best place to go? Which place should you avoid? And most of all, what are you going to do during your first date?

In this article, you will learn how to make memorable first dates that can lead to even more exciting dates.

Base Your Date on Common Interests

During the initial meeting, try to discover her interests, hobbies and passions while sharing yours too. This will make it much easier to come up with the best first date idea which is relevant and fun to both of you. Certainly, you can always introduce the girl to some new activities. However, it’s your first date and your goal is to create a good impression and win her heart. Therefore, if you both love to sing, why not go to karaoke?

Do Not Overspend

You are all for treating a woman to a fancy and expensive night out; however, it is not often the best way to start to know each other. Going overboard can actually put a lot of pressure during your first date and might scare her away. This is because you come off too soon to be too strong and conveyed the wrong message. Most of the time, this can mean you are trying to buy the girl’s affection rather than letting her experience it naturally.

In addition to that, highly expensive gifts such as $150 bottles of wine and a dozen long stem roses are unnecessary. All you have to do in your first date is just bring yourself – that is all you need in order to win the girl over.

Always keep it Simple

Nothing is more frustrating than the bumper to bumper traffic and driving in endless circles just to find parking. Waiting outside the bar for a long time can also kill the mood. During your first date, be reasonable and make it as painless as possible.

Do not make the girl drive 30 miles just to see you. You can meet her halfway or simply closer to her house. In addition to that, don’t plan for somewhere you are going to get lost and might end up late. Keeping your first date simple for now is a good move and the right choice in order to save elegant plans for your future dates.

Encourage Her to Talk

You should encourage a healthy conversation during your date. It should be an experience, which facilitates communication. That is why movie dates are not generally recommendable during first dates. They can work but they are definitely not the best situation. Movies force you to remain quiet next to each other when the date should only be about all the interaction between the both of you.

You want to laugh, flirt, as well as build the romantic tension. That is the reason why it is hard to do that when the both of you are silent and focusing on a movie. Choose dates that can provide the both of you the opportunity to talk freely and frequently.

Make Your Date One on One

While it’s true that it’s much easier to ask her out with circle of friends, it is still ideal for your first date to be spent with just the both of you. More likely, you will create intimate, personal connection during your first date without other people around. When no one is around, you can be able to set the right tone and make your intentions clear.

In addition to that, many girls are not comfortable with getting physical or flirting when there are other people watching. You do not want her feelings to be judged or you don’t want her to deal with a lot of new faces. Certainly, your friends will be able to understand. If your friends are around, she might not be able to tell you what she really feel during that night and want to keep the pressure low because she doesn’t want to be judged by your friends.

 

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